The Super Single Dad Website The Super Single Dad; Artfully Raising Children script At Last! The Primer for Single Dads Helping Make The Relationships With Your Children 1000 Times Better Than Ever!   “Are You a Single Dad With Full Custody of Your Children?”   “Ready to Increase the Relationship Value With Your Children 979 Times or More?”     script A Personal Message From: Jorge Arguello Dear Fellow Single Dad,   Before we begin, why don’t you grab your favorite beverage, make sure the kids are ok and safe either taking a nap or having supervised play, ok? That way you can read this in total comfort.    There, relaxed? Great, let’s begin.   So you have just become a single dad or maybe you have already been for awhile, but either way you have full custody of your children, and you're going it alone without their bio mom around helping out at all.   Whatever the circumstances are that brought that situation about, it is what it is, and you're ok with it, right?   I’m sure you’re feeling a sense of overwhelming responsibility with feelings of wonderment as well. I remember experiencing those exact feelings in the beginning too and it can be downright exciting, stressful and daunting all at the same time.   Now though, you have to be both dad and mom and that's a fine line to walk all the time, but one thing you need to realize right now is that somehow, you will transform into a "Super Single Dad" and I'll tell you how and why. Before I do though. . .   Let me ask you a question . . .     "Have You Ever Felt Alone Like Millions of Single Dads, Not Knowing Who to Turn to For Help?"     I mean, what would you do or how would you feel if you saw your sweet little three year old sticking a fork into your brand new surround sound system's speaker, and your eight and six year olds are screaming and yelling at the top of their lungs, fighting over a plastic dinosaur that belongs to your ten year old, who is so quiet that—"HEY! Where is my ten year old?"   Now, that's not such a far fetched scenario really; it happens everyday and I know that when scenes like that happen in real life, you're kind of wondering, "NOW WHAT?!"   Yes, “now what” is the single most asked question every single dad , and all parents for that matter, ask themselves probably 50 times before the day is through.   Unfortunately for me and for most of the single dads of my generation, we had no guides, no forums or even any “real life experience” type books around to help out. But you don't have to go through that because. . .   “The New Handbook Helping You Lead a Satisfying and Sane Life as a Single Dad is Now Available.”     Looking back, I wish I had something like the E-Book I’ve just written when I was a “newbie” single dad. But guess what? You don’t have to wonder how, or wish for it anymore because it’s something you can have right here; right now!!   The name of my e-book is called:   The Super Single Dad: Artfully Raising Children   This brand new E-Book is available RIGHT NOW and is downloadable any time 24/7.   Artfully you ask? . . . Yes, I know you’re wondering what that means, right?   Well, imagine you are the conductor of the Boston Pops Orchestra and in order to make sweet music, not only must you read music, but you must be able to interpret the songs in order to make the melodies come through all those musicians and all those instruments.   That’s what separates the really great conductors from the so-so ones. You can’t do it by just waving the baton. You have to know how. . .   Being a parent is somewhat similar in the fact that you must understand your children and know their wants in order to provide and satisfy their specific needs. That’s what makes for a beautiful symphony of a family.   And, it’s that inside information that will "Transform" you into a real “Super Dad” while leaving the other dads wondering how you do it.                                                                                                        You won’t have to learn the hard way, without help and struggling to find the right answers, because when you order my Brand New E-book;   The Super Single Dad: Artfully Raising Children   You’ll be armed with information giving you the knowledge you need. My new e-book is filled with tips and facts you need to “create sweet music”. You won’t have to wait until your children are grown to understand what you need Right Now helping you answer the “now what” question!   While I'm on the subject of helping you understand the techniques of becoming a . . .   "SUPER SINGLE DAD" Join My Newsletter To Receive Announcements of Upcoming Books, News, Resources and New Products helping you Achieve Super Dad Status SUPER SINGLE DAD NEWSLETTER Name: Email: Zip Code:   In my book I reveal “real world” techniques and tips you can use right away helping you achieve a more satisfying relationship with your children.   "All The Facts You Must Know To Survive As A Single Dad Quick And Easy At Your Fingertips"   My Guide reveals to you:   Understanding the sounds your child makes no matter their age Meeting their needs while satisfying yours Being mom and dad and reconciling the two Discipline that makes sense for you and your child Why lines must be drawn and enforced Maintaining a happy environment for you and your family Satisfying your need to form relationships outside the family dynamic  Sex and the Single Dad And much more . . .   In reality, you are very lucky to be here now. You're at the right time and at the right place.   I wish I had a guide like this back when I started out. Even though         there have always been single dads, it wasn’t until the mid to late              eighties that the “single dad” phenomenon emerged as a new direction in the American family culture.   Back when I was awarded custody of my kids, I was one of the few men in the forefront of that new breed of single dads, a wave that would soon become a tsunami. Back then, there weren't any forums, blogs, or resources to find answers about something you might want to know, like:   How do I handle my son’s tantrum in the supermarket Why is my daughter crying in her sleep and not waking up Is there a way to control sibling rivalries at any age And even today there aren’t many books that take you by the hand showing you step-by-step how to raise a very well adjusted, loving, respectful child that you can totally be proud of.   My E-Book Primer. . .   The Super Single Dad: Artfully Raising Children   . . . accomplishes that for you right now. It reveals the insights of over thirty years of raising children, rich with “real world experience” that you can apply to your situation today, and get immediate results!   “Why You Need This E-book”   My name is Jorge, and I’m still a single dad. I’ve been raising my kids since they were born, on my own, so I totally understand what you go through day in and day out.   As you can tell from my picture above, I'm just an ordinary "Clark Kent" of a single dad but underneath the facade and through time, trial and error, I transformed myself into a "Super Single Dad". How I did it is what I will teach you so you can become one too.   I have a senior in High School and, the graduate, is now 18 years of age; a legal adult here in California.   Both are honor students in the Advanced Placement Program, a high school scholastic program awarding them college credits towards the college or university of their choice. It’s like being in college while attending high school. They’re both good kids.   I tell you this not just to brag, (hey, I’m proud of them) but to show you that you can do the same thing; raise children to adulthood . . . children that you can be proud of while maintaining a loving and respectful relationship with them that you carry throughout the rest of your lives.   You will feel on top of the world and very PROUD having children that love and respect you and that are respectful to others too!     This and more are just a few of the things that you'll discover when you invest and claim your copy of my e-book.     “The Truth About Your Responsibilities as a Single Dad”   Look, I’m not going to bore you with statistics showing that more than fifty percent of marriages end in divorce. Or, girls without a father in their life are two and a half times as likely to get pregnant and 53 percent more likely to commit suicide.   Or that even those 6 to 10 year old children that are raised in divorced-mother only households, showed a significantly increased likelihood “to lie, destroy property, and associate with children who got into trouble.”   Those are the hard facts, but you already know all that, and even if you didn’t, it’s all a moot point anyway because whatever your situation was, the judge, or circumstances beyond your control, awarded you sole, physical and legal custody of your children.   You have them, and as in my case, with no help from the other parent. Anyway, whatever the reason is, all you really want to know is, “NOW WHAT”, right?    There is that question again.   But that's what my e-boook...   The Super Single Dad: Artfully Raising Children   ...will help you with. You will have the answers to the “now what” or “what do I do” questions, which are probably the single, most often asked questions I hear from single dads.     “The Most Startling, Little Known Secrets on Creating a Lifetime of Joy for You and Your Children.”   What my Super Dad Primer does is explain to you, in vivid details, how to actually perform these tasks like:   Prep bottles of formula for your baby What temperature your formula has to be for your baby How to prepare nutritious meals for your children How to talk to your child and why baby talk is not always appropriate How to handle your emotions in a Positive Manner Maintaining a Healthy Balance in your daily life Keeping kids occupied so Dad can do things around the house How some TV and gaming systems can be beneficial  Occupying them with ART materials stimulating their growth Music styles that help your children increase brain functionality How reading to your infant profoundly impacts her life Why eating together as a family is crucial to your children Why singing to them is important to your child’s well being How art is important for you as well as to your children Why you should see yourself as an Artist raising your children Some of those things seem trivial perhaps, but to someone just starting out, they are mountains to overcome. There is nothing trivial about raising children. It is hard work and takes know how, and believe me, that's the type of information you get from my experiences.   These are only some of the things my Guidebook will show you and help you with. I won’t leave any stone un-turned because I have lived through it all, and survived. I know you will be able to do the same because you’ll have a resource you can access again and again.     Jorge-I have to compliment you on a great E-book and Newsletter "Do what this man says and you will start to see daylight! Your words speak volumes about your wisdom on such matters. . . I share your views on the world my friend." Don L- Musician/Entrepreneur-Mt. Shasta, CA       “Jorge, kudos to you and the insights in your e-book. It helped me out immensely!”   “Thanks for your counsel about the behavior of my boys. The advice you gave me about this rivalry they have between them really helped put the way I feel about it in a whole new perspective. I know I’m not a single dad but as a single mom I still find your methods to go way beyond what the other so called “parent gurus” claim to understand. Thanks so much for your guidance.” --Krissy Crabs, Kindergarten Teacher. Twenty-Nine Palms, California       “How to Have a Satisfying Love Relationship Without Ruining Your Family Dynamic.”   Being a single dad raising your children is a Full Time Responsibility and it is the best “job” anyone can have in my opinion. You have accepted, or by circumstance, was handed the challenge and privilege to nurture and raise your children into dynamic, loving and socially responsible human beings.   As the primary parent, taking on the responsibility of raising your children, is a huge undertaking and you’ll have to adjust to your new way of life.   Being a Single Parent brings on a responsibility and commitment unlike anything else you will ever experience in your life.   Sacrifice definitely becomes part of that responsibility and you must come to terms with it; and the sooner you do the better.   In my e-book, I’ll address that aspect of being a single dad because having complete custody of your children, is totally different than being a “part time” single dad, where you're "sharing" that responsibility with their bio-mom.   In any case, you must come to terms with the word sacrifice and accepting that concept right from the start will make things easier later.   So what about your needs, wants and desires? They cannot be denied either or it will throw the balance of the family dynamic way out into a black hole creating all kinds of turmoil for everyone.                                                               By suppressing what comes natural to you is a mistake. Believe me, it is a mistake in ways that can and will be detrimental to everyone concerned.   But when is the right time or the right circumstance?  I’ll cover that specific topic in the book helping you better understand the intricacies as well as the consequences of those actions.